Using
one simple idea, I consistently make and reach my goals. Read on to learn what
strategy I use and how you can apply it to your life to help fulfill all your important
goals.
First the Problem
First the Problem
If
you’re like most people, then you have dreams and goals in your life. In fact,
there are probably many things — large and small — that you would like to
accomplish.
That’s
great, but there’s one common mistake often made when it comes to setting
goals. (I know because I’ve committed this error many times myself.) The
problem is this: we set a deadline, instead of creating a plan.
We
then focus all our energy and effort on the end goal that we want to reach AND
the deadline we want to do it by. We say things like, “I want to lose 10 pounds
this month” or “I want to save $5,000 in the next 6 months”. The problem with this strategy is if you don’t
miraculously meet the deadline in the time frame you’ve set, then you feel like
a failure … even if you’re better off than when you started, it doesn’t usually
matter, you still feel like you failed and more often than not people just stop
pursuing the goal at that point.
So what’s the solution?
The Power is in the Plan, Not the
DeadlineIt’s pretty simple. It’s been my personal experience that setting a goal and deadline isn’t sufficient. The really effective way to achieve goals is to remove the stress of a deadline and instead prepare a simple plan of action to operate by rather than a deadline to perform it by.
Instead
of giving yourself a deadline (and then feeling like a failure if you don’t make
it), you should choose a goal that is important to you and then put a plan in
place and then work towards it consistently.
How does this work:
Example 1: WritingAs you know, I publish a new article for my blog every day. Since my first article in February, I’ve only missed one posting. Sometimes the article is short, sometimes it’s not as compelling as I’d like it to be but it still gets written and published as planned.
Here’s
what my plan could look like:
- Create (and maintain) a list of 20
interesting blog topics
- Create a simple article template for each
topic that should include a headline, primary message, personal connection
if possible, science and reference links if applicable, and a picture to
visually reinforce
- Write and Publish Article
Example 2: Diet
Back
in February, I decided that I wanted to lose 150lbs, create a more healthy diet
and incorporate regular
exercise and healthy breathing. The first thing I did was create a simple plan to achieve it. I didn’t give myself a deadline for reaching this goal. I simply decided what I wanted to do and how I needed to get started towards achieving the goal. For instance, I had to learn how many calories I required to maintain the current weight. Then I had to decide on a new calorie goal – and how to roll it out incrementally. Here’s an example of what the list might have looked like:
exercise and healthy breathing. The first thing I did was create a simple plan to achieve it. I didn’t give myself a deadline for reaching this goal. I simply decided what I wanted to do and how I needed to get started towards achieving the goal. For instance, I had to learn how many calories I required to maintain the current weight. Then I had to decide on a new calorie goal – and how to roll it out incrementally. Here’s an example of what the list might have looked like:
1.
How much weight do I want to lose?
2.
How many calories do I need to consume to maintain my current
weight?
3.
What’s a realistic starting
daily calorie goal? 2000
4.
What would my day look like with 2000 calories: 400 x 3 + snacks or 500, 500, 600 + snacks
etc.
5.
To eat healthier: start by adding 1 vegetable to every meal
6.
Create a spreadsheet to track all of this, recording results and
behavior to find patterns
7.
Keep the things that work and provide results, lose anything
that is cumbersome or doesn’t produce results
8.
Always Move Forward – Slow and Steady Wins the Race
So
that’s the simple plan, and I do emphasize simple. Make it as simple as you can
– then start working on your plan every day. Guess what? You’ll hit your goals
every time if you simply persevere, guaranteed.
So
drop the crazy deadlines and stressing yourself out – instead live by a plan
and be happy.
STATS | |
Journey Day: | 109 |
Today's Calories: | 1670 |
Daily Calorie Goal: | 1700 |
Next Weigh In: | 5/7/14 |
Days till Weigh-In: | 6 |
Starting Weight: | 351 |
Current Weight: | 336 |
Lost So Far: | 15 |
DAILY CALORIE TRACKER | |
Thursday 5/1/14 | |
Calories | |
Breakfast | |
English Muffin (light) | 100 |
PB2 & Strawberry Jam | 150 |
Sliced Fresh Strawberries | 75 |
Hazelnut Crème Decaf | 0 |
Organic Mixed Greens | 0 |
Total: | 325 |
Hazelnut Coffee | 0 |
McIntosh | 60 |
Total: | 60 |
Lunch | |
Wasabi Beef MG Flatbread | 595 |
Dasani | 0 |
Total: | 595 |
Snacks | |
Carrots | 30 |
Total: | 30 |
Dinner | |
SS Grilled Turkey breast, spinich, lentils, quinoa Wrap | 600 |
Steamed Spinich | 0 |
Total: | 600 |
Snacks | |
Hazelnut Crème Decaf | 60 |
Daily Total: | 1670 |
Daily Calorie Goal: | 1700 |
25 min exercise (minimum) | Yes |